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Hi hotties. I’m Kaurie DiBerardino — Founder of the Former Hotties Club™ 🔥

Motherhood, midlife, empty nest, a body you barely recognize- and not a single person warned you it would all hit at once.

Nothing fits anymore, you're sweaty at all times, and your hottie days feel like a different lifetime. You're exhausted, overstimulated, and some days you catch yourself in the mirror and think when did THAT happen.

Sound familiar? I was there not too long ago — and honestly, some days I'm still there. The difference is I stopped waiting to feel like myself again and started figuring out who I actually am now.

This is where women in the middle of all that hot mess come to feel less alone, laugh at the absurdity, and actually figure out who we are now that everyone stopped needing us every five minutes.

Grab your readers and join us. We're not fine, but we're doing it together.

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I'm the midlife mom who accidentally went viral — which, honestly, was not on my bingo card.

Wife, mother, creative soul, and someone who apparently had a lot more to say once the kids left and the hot flashes arrived.

I built the Former Hotties Club™ for women who woke up one day, looked around at their empty nest and their changing reflection, and thought — wait, who am I now? Because that was me too, and nobody was talking about it in a way that felt real.

This is the space for laughter, identity, reinvention, and finding your spark again in the middle of the most absurd, overstimulating, underwhelming-and-overwhelming-at-the-same-time chapter of our lives.

Between hot flashes, snoring husbands, and going to battle with our back fat— we're navigating all of it, in our unofficial uniform of hoodies & black leggings. Together.